http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2012/01/to_find_happiness_forget_about.html

http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2012/01/to_find_happiness_forget_about.html

I really wish I'd seen this article sooner. Somehow, it feels like an answer to all my questions. I know a lot of people are going through this and the perspective presented here is very interesting!